How your baby is growing this week
About the size of a jicama — roughly 16.7 inches, 3.75 lbs. Practicing breathing by drawing amniotic fluid in and out. Toenails are fully formed; skin is smoothing from red to opaque as fat fills in underneath. Movements should stay strong and regular — keep counting kicks daily.
What your partner is going through
Braxton Hicks (practice contractions) intensify — the belly tightens for 30-60 seconds, then releases. Colostrum, the first milk, may start leaking; nursing pads help. Rib pain as baby pushes upward, plus shortness of breath until baby drops later on.
What to focus on this week, dad
- 01Hospital Tour: park there, walk in, see the rooms — eliminate surprises for delivery day
- 02Hospital Pre-Registration: complete admin forms online so you don't fill clipboards during labor
Connect with your partner
Buy nursing pads for leaks. She might not ask — buy them anyway.
Source: ACOG
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