First Overnight at Grandparents'

Dosage, timing, how to administer. Leave the medication in original packaging with a printed label showing the schedule.

Both parents' numbers, pediatrician, poison control (1-800-222-1222), nearest ER address. Stick it on the fridge.

The one specific comfort object baby reaches for at bedtime. If you don't send it, nobody sleeps.

Whatever baby sleeps in at home. Grandparents defaulting to loose blankets is the #1 safe sleep risk to address.

White noise is non-negotiable if baby uses it. Portable Hatch or download the same app on grandparent's phone.

Send at least 2 - one will disappear into couch cushions within the first hour. Include the clip if you use one.

Not for sleeping - for floor time and comfort. A blanket that smells like home helps baby settle in an unfamiliar space.

Count on 8-12 diapers for an overnight. Pack 15 to be safe - running out means a grandparent guessing your diaper brand at Target.

Full pack of wipes plus the specific diaper cream you use. Generic substitutions can cause rashes on sensitive skin.

Blowouts, spit-up, food mishaps. Two daytime outfits and one set of pajamas is the minimum for an overnight.

Outlet covers, cabinet locks, gate at stairs, cords out of reach. Their house hasn't had a baby in 25+ years - walk through it together.

Firm mattress, fitted sheet, nothing else in the crib. No bumpers, pillows, or quilts. Set it up together and verify it meets current safety standards.

Back to sleep, nothing in the crib, room temperature 68-72°F. This conversation feels awkward but it's the most important one you'll have.

If grandparents will be driving, install the car seat yourself or send a how-to video for their specific vehicle. 80% of car seats are installed wrong.

Worn t-shirt tucked near (not in) the crib, or a burp cloth you've used. Your scent is the strongest comfort signal baby has.

Start with a 4-5 hour stretch before committing to overnight. Builds confidence for everyone - baby, grandparents, and you.

Set expectations: one update at bedtime, one in the morning. And agree on the threshold for calling you to come get baby - better to have the plan and not need it.