Hospital Bag - Dad

Rooms swing between freezing and warm depending on what mom needs. Layer up so you can adjust without leaving to dig through bags. Zip hoodie is ideal.

Keep it in your personal bag, not hers. You'll brush your teeth in a tiny bathroom at odd hours. Fresh breath matters when you're face-to-face coaching through contractions.

Labor can last 12-36+ hours. You'll be sweating from stress and running around. Apply before things get intense — you won't think about it later but everyone will notice.

If labor goes 2+ days, you might want to clean up. Electric razor is easier in a tiny hospital bathroom. This is about feeling human, not looking perfect.

Protein bars, trail mix, beef jerky, peanut butter crackers — high-calorie, non-perishable. You need to eat to support her. Don't eat strong-smelling food in the room.

Keep $20-30 in small bills and coins. Cafeteria, vending machines, parking meters. Some hospitals still don't take cards everywhere. ATMs charge $3+ fees.

Large insulated bottle — you'll forget to drink while focused on her. Dehydration gives you headaches you can't afford. Fill up every time you pass a water station.

Bring a 10-foot cable and a portable battery pack. Your phone is your camera, communication hub, and entertainment. A dead phone during delivery is a disaster you can prevent.

Pre-download shows and movies — hospital WiFi is usually terrible. Early labor can be hours of waiting. Having entertainment ready keeps you calm and present.

Noise-canceling if possible. Use one earbud so you can hear her and the nurses. Good for resting during early labor when she might be sleeping between contractions.

Charge battery fully the night before and clear the memory card. Bring the charger too. Switch to burst mode for delivery — you'll want options, not one blurry shot.

Tennis balls in a sock, a foam roller, or a massage cane. Back labor is intense — she'll need sustained counter-pressure for hours. Your hands alone will give out.

Read the birth plan until you can recite it. You are her advocate when she can't speak for herself. Know the must-haves vs nice-to-haves so you can make calls in the moment.

Print and put in a clear page protector. Include: her OB, pediatrician, your parents, her parents, work HR, insurance hotline, and your neighbor who's watching the dog.

Hospital won't release baby without a properly installed car seat. Install it 3-4 weeks before the due date. Get it inspected at a fire station or certified CPST check event.

Fill up when she hits 37 weeks and keep it above half from then on. When it's go-time, you don't want to stop for gas. Know the fastest route and a backup route.

Write the texts now: family group, friends, work. Leave blanks for name/weight/time. You'll be too emotional and exhausted to compose anything coherent after delivery.

Write a few cards with encouraging phrases she's told you help. During transition (the hardest phase), she may say she can't do it — that's when these matter most.

Check with the hospital first — some ban diffusers. If allowed, lavender and peppermint are popular. Put a drop on a cotton ball near her pillow, don't overdo it.

Small battery-powered or USB fan. She'll run hot during labor even in a cold room. Point it at her face during contractions — instant relief. This one is underrated.

Sleep when the nurses say to sleep. You'll feel guilty resting while she can't, but you need to be functional for what comes next. A rested dad is a useful dad.

Check your hospital's parking situation before labor day. Some have garages with daily max rates ($15-25). Some have meters. Know where the ER entrance lot is for fast drop-off.